I hope you are feeling better about it all.
I agree with umsusu people some people are far too interested in mouthing off without really knowing what they are talking about. Where such young children are concerned I think the parents have a responsibility to be sensitive and cautious. We are all int he same boat and no one really knows anything until the results arrive.
I'm still annoyed with the 'friend' who told Ds that her son found it easy and answered every question, I wish I had been there!!!
In a perfect world everyone that wants a place would get one but in reality there will be the lucky ones and also the kids that just miss out, however much they deserve it
Still got fingers crossed for all our kids!!!