Controversially we haven't put it down or a Bexley school. In the end we talked to ds about each school and listed the pros and cons.
He was adamant he didn't want st Olaves. He said it scared him and made him feel on edge. He was so tearful about it, bless him.
He do wants the Judd, I'm going to do everything in my power at the appeal for him.
Luckily we now live on a direct train route to Tonbridge so it's really easy. However parent's evenings etc will be a pain!
Good luck making your decision!
Thank you, and good luck to you too, and fingers crossed for Judd
Ps. For our reasons we didn't make DC sit st olaves test, however, he resented our decision a lot. He will always do. Parents ultimately have to know what's best for their children. Whether right or wrong, we know them better