Beth's or Wilmington Grammar for boys???

[Gydde]

Help, we can't decide. any info greatly appreciated

[salsa]

Hi, we liked both. My son is at Dartford, however, both BETHS and Wilmington were on his favourite lists. I found Wilmington very warm and caring. Don't know if it is like that once you are in! We've got friends at BETHS who love the school. Wilmington seemed really techie and had great information for parents. Which one is closer?
Also BETHS is OFSTED Outstanding and Wilmington good, if you go by OFSTED.