Awwww thanks so much for your feedback, and super advice from all of you. I was starting to think I was a bit strange for getting myself worked up
If it is alright with you I shall pop on here and you can hold my hand
I think also it has kind of hit home with me how very hard this exam is ( even for the bright ones imo ) and so am just trying to find a balance of not getting too stressed about how much I want her to get in, yet also to encourage her to put the work in and do the very best she can. I really think confidence plays a very big part in this process and more than anything I want her to have the confidence to feel she has as good a chance as any. ( I do wonder though that coming from a little primary she is probably at a disadvantage to those who have been *geared* to get in at their independent schools ) Maybe it is me who needs the confidence too, I am already thinking of things to say if she doesn't pass/get in. I actually want to enjoy this process ha ha. She I believe is the only one in her class taking it, so not really many mums can share with and maybe understand the feelings but thanks so much for letting me waffle on here. Really helps and can't believe when I first posted on here it all felt light years away and now here we are, with just 88 days to go!!
I shall get stocked up in the wine department too