Which 11+ region are you in?
You need to query why the Pupil premium funding is not used for your child. The school MUST use the money for the children it is allocated for; Ofsted will check on this!
I'm in Devon so would be aiming for Colyton Grammar.
I did query why my son wasn't seemingly getting to benefit from the Pupil Premium and was told that they use it mainly to booster those that are experiencing difficulties in learning. When I queried this further I was told that my son had done some drumming sessions but they stopped suddenly after having just 2! Unfortunately, the drumming was not what my son has an interest in and so I hadn't signed the permission slip (he was taken out of the usual lesson) but he was included anyway. Other children on free school meals did the drumming too but, as I have said, it stopped before it was supposed to and his teacher didn't know why.
Sadly, my son feels like the geek of the class and has admitted to me and his teachers that he is "dumbing himself down" in order to try and fit in.
I have been told that they may try and put him in a programme attached to the local secondary school but as he would be the only one from his school I fear it may alienate him further.