We are confused right now as to what is the right war to proceed, is it via an appeal ?
Yes, if you feel you have sufficient alternative academic evidence:http://www.elevenplusexams.co.uk/appeal ... cation#b11
and good reasons for wanting a place:http://www.elevenplusexams.co.uk/appeal ... -school#c2
I would caution you, though, that the occasional appeal I've been involved with for this school has been difficult to win.
and specifically we want to see the papers and understand why he did poorly if he did or is there some mistake like marking in wrong sequence etc.
Under the Data Protection Act, I'm afraid you have no legal right to see the papers.
Do the Reading Boys give a chance to parents to view the exam papers and marksheets ?
I don't know, but if they say 'No', then unfortunately that's the end of the matter. You could try offering to pay for an analysis, but I don't know whether they are prepared to provide this facility.
(Bucks, for example, charge £25 for an analysis: viewtopic.php?f=12&t=12629