Apart from rugby and the associated training sessions neither of mine have been "club" boys Yamin and they seem to be doing just fine. At first it did bother me that they weren't making the most of everything that's on offer (I would have loved to have done some of the things on offer when I was at school) but they are very happy just being.....
I think it's a bit like university where you spend the first year making friends and the second trying to get rid of the vast majority of them
Yes, I know what you mean. And I am going through the same that you did, I feel a bit "aaahhh, shouldn't you 'join in'?" but I of course don't want to force him, and when the homework really kicks in I have to say the thought of him having time most nights to do it straight after school, at a table and not either in the car or catching up at the weekend would be no bad thing. Thank you, thats reassuring. And I forget, yes, they both do rugby.