Thanks all for the views. Haven't really come to any conclusion, though as the general feeling seems to be to leave well alone I am veering more that way. We took great care with our elder son to ensure that whatever he achieves (whether that be a little or a lot), he will know he has done so of his own back/bat and have a strong sense of self esteem as a result. So I guess we should give our younger son the same sense of self worth too.
A mighty strange feeling for me to have such a dilemma - I am usually very clear on my opinions and rarely ask others for advice (not necessarily a good way to be, but the way I tend to be nevertheless!) I have found there have been two/three occasions throughout my eldest son's 11+ journey though where I have felt unsure and sought views/advice from this forum...and as such I am grateful for those who take the time to answer.
Might find myself cursing one and all though if younger son flunks CAT's because he didn't understand question types - heh heh!
