loobylou wrote:
I'm not in your region and I don't know whether more people sit the exams in your area - but I was very glad that there wasn't any recognition of those that passed when my children were sitting the exams. We were in a very small school (20-23 in a year group, state school) and approximately 9 or 10 of the children sat the exams with an expectation of between 0 and 2 passing each year (my dd was in an unusual year when 3 passed). It would have felt awful if those who had been successful had been singled out for some sort of praise - all of the parents of children who had passed (and the children themselves) felt very conscious of those who had tried and not succeeded - and indeed those who knew that the exams were not for them. We all kept a very low profile indeed.
I wasn't suggesting there should be public praise for those who passed, that would be awful for those who don't or didn't take the test. But I think telling children you must not even discuss it almost as tho it's a dirty subject is wrong. Let's face it, tell somebody not to do something & that's exactly what they want to do! Surely for mental health/wellbeing of the children it would be better to encourage understanding that some will be happy others upset & to be considerate of people's feelings plus to be humble if you did pass & your best friend didn't!