Thanks so much for all the advice munchkins, really helpful. Having thought long and hard, have come to the conclusion myself with help from the DH wanted some more support , so she is now getting a little top up tutoring ( not one to one ) from elsewhere and that she actually quite enjoys. TBH it probably shall be us doing the topping up
I have left the DH to concentrate on the Maths and I shall do the NVR and V with her. I have found she is up against lots of privately educated kids who are probably stretched a little more at school, and prepped for the exam and then also have tutoring ontop of that, although she is a bright spark and on the YG&T register thingy in her little primary, I just want to give her the very best chance. I have very kindly been given some work books for home and so begins our learning journey ready for her to take the Exam in September. Eeeeeek!!
She has matured so much since beginning this journey, from not wanting to talk about exams/11 plus etc, she SO wants to go to the school and can really see why we ( and others ) think a school very much suited to her.