we are in abit of a simular predicument - dd finished yr5 level 5a
There was 3 girls who sat the 11+ at her school no boys and there is only her who passed. she was really happy to have passed but gutted when she found out about the other 2 failing and didnt want to go with no friends - i wouldnt mind but there not her best friends so i think it was more to do with not knowing anyone.
We moved her school last feb because her old school would not give her work appropriate for her ability and she found it very boring. She hated school.
Her new school however are really pushing her and giving her work upto gcse level and she is loving it.
So i have explained to her if she went to the local comp with her friends she could very well be bored and hate it like her old school. As soon as she thought about this she soon wanted the grammar again