Sorry for the confusion I moved the post here as requested by a red report and left a shadow.
mamamay, welcome to this friendly forum.
For the benefit of all.
1. Be polite. Even though you are looking at a computer screen and cannot see other members, they are real people who have feelings.
2. “Think first, post second.” A post may not always read the same to others as it does to you. Review your post before submitting it and consider how it will be received by others. If your post is misinterpreted and causes offence, explain apologize.