It is not easy. We are literally counting minutes to Feb 12th. Stress is immense !
Having said that, DW and I decided not even refer to 11+ when DD2 is around. We discuss almost nothing else when she is not around : priority of schools, various case scenarios, plans of actions etc.
It was much easier first time around tbh. We were not in London at that time, and the pressure is clearly less when you are outside London. We decided not to take any tuition this time as well, and we don't regret it.
Almost all indies we applied will announce results on 12th.
In the mean time, we are trying to occupy ourselves with watching lots of movies, a bit of cycling when the weather is good, and occasional glass of wine
All the best to all of you and your DCs!