sphynx wrote:
Thanks WMMum and KCG. DD scored 244 which was higher than I expected really (she only did 8 hours of maths she hadn't done at school with a tutor, we were expecting to be in Scotland so no need for 11+)
We are going to see SGGS but not until the 30th which is very close to CAF submission date. My extended family are very anti all girls environment but when we went round RHS I was surprised how much I liked it.
WMMum would you say SGGS is worth extra travel? We might be able to get DD on the bus that goes from here to there but it will be a longer journey than to RHS. Or I could perhaps reduce my hours at work to pick up. Any massive issues in the school with bullying? DD can be a bit sensitive (administrator talked about pulling her from the 11+ on the day as she was visibly upset and didn't want to go in). I like the idea that the girls there are driven to achieve, she needs some competition!
That is a good dilemma to be in, Sphynx. I cannot comment on RHS, or compare the two, as I am south of Stratford and have never visited RHS. I have not heard about issues with bullying, but I am sure there must be some. DD was the only girl from her school and SGGS did a good job to integrate the girls before they started. The school also offers lots of different extra-curricular activities during lunchtimes so there are lots of opportunities to meet girls with similar activities, but the girls need to take the initiative to attend these clubs themselves.
I have found the pastoral care good, but have not needed it much. One issue I think many bright children find when they go to grammar school is that they are suddenly not top of everything, and that is something we chatted about to prepare DD before she joined the school.
One problem with living a long way from the school is DDs friends are all a long way away (they could live as far again the opposite side of the school) and it makes it harder to have friends home after school. It also makes after-school activities harder. Please do take the travel time into consideration. In year 7 DD came home about quarter past five and then had homework once she came home (two pieces of homework a day - one 30min and one 45min).
Good luck with your choice. Sorry for my rambling reply.