It would be a shame if you left.Although I feel very differently about some aspects of life to you - you add a certain interest and spark to the site.If you do decide to leave, well best wishes for the future to you and your children, of whom you are rightly proud.
I feel the Mods do their best on a voluntary basis.I would not use the term "mini Hitler" myself.I think we do not always know what complaints/pms they have recieved and they have to make a judgement call sometimes.Nobody is perfect but we mostly all enjoy the forum otherwise we wouldn't be here.
I am very glad to have found the site.It is useful source of information and the everything else section has helped me through some parenting issues.
Lets remember that they give their time freely and that we all make errors of judgement at times.
Best wishes to you and your family Flamenco.