I find google and googlemaps useful for this sort of thing.
You can use google to get the postcode of the place, then use googlemaps to work out the directions from
rail station to the point of interest. Of course it can't comment on the "safest" bit... yet.
PS1: In fact, you can directly type in "the spice lounge, faversham" in googlemaps.
PS2: I would be wary of giving addresses of party spots on the web! although this is a safe website so its fine
but have heard of numerous incidents where public party info has gone wrong.. most recently where a Herts girl got around 20,000 RSVP's on Facebook