Do you have a book which teaches NVR? If not, then have a look at the CGP 11+ NVR Study Book and Parents Guide. It has a lot of explanations and worked examples in there, so maybe it will be easier for your daughter to get used to spotting patterns when she can see it explained step by step. https://www.cgpbooks.co.uk/Student/book ... ook_NHRDE1
Another useful resource is Bond 11+ NVR Practice Tests - not the assessment papers books, but practice tests. This is because the answer booklet that comes with the test papers includes detailed solutions/explanations to each question, not just the answers.
I do sympathise with your DD - I can manage only the simplest NVR questions, anything more than that and my brain goes on strike!