Everything has changed since I did my eleven plus
Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 10:55 pm
I sat my eleven plus in 1982. I passed to the local grammar school and had a very happy time in secondary school. I had no coaching whatsoever.
To my horror I have now discovered that several of my son's classmates have been coached for a year.
I went to the local bookshop and bought a selection of papers.
With the first paper of each type (VR/ NVR) we did a section or two at a time, reading the intsructions together and me helping him with the first couple of questions.
Once we had done this we moved straight into full length exams against the clock. My son was very confident and convinced he would pass- I needed really to show him how hard it was so that he would realise that some preparation is actually necessary. I was bright but lazy at school and suspect my son is very like me. I think I have dented his confidence slightly but necessarily.
Anyway we have now done 14 papers and I have another 18 to go. I have asked him to do one exam per day through the summer holidays and try to vary the order because I tried doing maths every day a couple of weeks ago to "nail it" and it became counterproductive at one point. He couldn't put into practise what I had taught him the previous day.
On maths I naively assumed that he would only be examined in subjects which he had been taught at school- but to my surprise he was pretty dubious on fractions, decimals, long division and percentages and I have had to teach him all of them.
I have noticed he really struggles with early morning exams- 8.30 was the earliest and I don't think his brain had engaged or if he's "not in the mood" when he seems to become more amused as I become more stressed.
He has been banned from Xbox, gameboy etc for the holidays and is reading harry potter- I have also bought a load of puffin classics to get him reading more. Although I have been buying him games on ebay if he does very well and allowing him to have occasional gameboy time as a further inducement to sitting exams if he's not overly keen.
If anyone has any advice please let me have it- I had no idea the world had changed so much since I sat the eleven plus.
I have resisted going to a tutor- although I could afford one- because I like to think he will pass "with just a bit of practise" and because I will be giving him one to one attention and personally monitoring his performance.
We live in Guernsey. We have used CGP and Alpha papers to date, having just ventured into Nfer Nelson multiple choice, which another post suggests are relevant for Guernsey.
Am I doing anything particularly wrong?
Thanks
To my horror I have now discovered that several of my son's classmates have been coached for a year.
I went to the local bookshop and bought a selection of papers.
With the first paper of each type (VR/ NVR) we did a section or two at a time, reading the intsructions together and me helping him with the first couple of questions.
Once we had done this we moved straight into full length exams against the clock. My son was very confident and convinced he would pass- I needed really to show him how hard it was so that he would realise that some preparation is actually necessary. I was bright but lazy at school and suspect my son is very like me. I think I have dented his confidence slightly but necessarily.
Anyway we have now done 14 papers and I have another 18 to go. I have asked him to do one exam per day through the summer holidays and try to vary the order because I tried doing maths every day a couple of weeks ago to "nail it" and it became counterproductive at one point. He couldn't put into practise what I had taught him the previous day.
On maths I naively assumed that he would only be examined in subjects which he had been taught at school- but to my surprise he was pretty dubious on fractions, decimals, long division and percentages and I have had to teach him all of them.
I have noticed he really struggles with early morning exams- 8.30 was the earliest and I don't think his brain had engaged or if he's "not in the mood" when he seems to become more amused as I become more stressed.
He has been banned from Xbox, gameboy etc for the holidays and is reading harry potter- I have also bought a load of puffin classics to get him reading more. Although I have been buying him games on ebay if he does very well and allowing him to have occasional gameboy time as a further inducement to sitting exams if he's not overly keen.
If anyone has any advice please let me have it- I had no idea the world had changed so much since I sat the eleven plus.
I have resisted going to a tutor- although I could afford one- because I like to think he will pass "with just a bit of practise" and because I will be giving him one to one attention and personally monitoring his performance.
We live in Guernsey. We have used CGP and Alpha papers to date, having just ventured into Nfer Nelson multiple choice, which another post suggests are relevant for Guernsey.
Am I doing anything particularly wrong?
Thanks