Tokki wrote:
Hello,
my husband always said to her that she should do Architecture at uni.
I have to be honest, this statement made my heart break a little. The implication from this, and your follow up that she is not sure that architecture is for her, is probably at the root of all the issues. If she loves Art, why couldn't your husband encourage her to do Art as a career, for example? It is perfectly possible - although possibly not as lucrative as Architecture.
Like other posters, I would spend time with her, or get her to spend time with the school careers adviser, actually drilling down to what she would like to do - or what she definitely doesn't want to do - Chemistry is arguably one of the hardest A levels - so she needs to be sure that she would want to do that - what does her Chem teacher say? Did she not choose this originally because of the Maths/Physics connection with Architecture?
Start from the beginning again, but quickly. The most important thing is that she enjoys the subjects she takes and isn't taking them out of some perceived obligation to her father.