steppemum wrote:
I would seriously consider whether grammar is going to be the right route for her, as I suspect (others may come along and say I am wrong) that their SENCO departments are just not as experienced at dealing with things, and they don't come up so often.
There is often an assumption that Grammars 'don't have SEN children'. As Guest55 correctly says, they certainly do. It's just that their average intellectual ability will be higher than that at a non-selective school, and the range of SEN's encountered will be more limited. For instance, at a Grammar, High-functioning Autistic Spectrum Disorder / Aspergers will be more common than at a non-selective.
DC17C mentioned the Dyscovery Centre at Pontypridd, run by the University of South Wales. I had a look round in June when DD2 had suddenly decided to go to university and it certainly looked good - the Dyspraxia testing room looked impossible to successfully complete. They do assessments for the whole range of developmental disorders (dyslexia/dyspraxia & ASD) and from my experience of fees for such services are pretty reasonable. It's also exceedingly handy for the Treforest station if you want to get there by train.
As part of her degree, DD2 will be doing a work placement there starting next week, but I'm not sure what she'll actually be doing. The people doing the assessments are of course fully qualified.